This cougar is sharpening her claws.
After seven years spent dating dud dudes her own age, Hayli Hooper, 38, is now setting her sights on fellas who are a little younger.
“Guys my age don’t want anything fun,” Hooper, who works part-time as a nurse and stripper, complained.
“All they want is some kind of step-mom for their kids. And they always bring along baggage from being with their ex-wives,’ she further moaned. “More often than not, though, they’re so judgmental.”
Hooper thinks this makes men her age “boring” although she admitted: “I don’t think they are really too keen on me, either.”
Enter men who are almost two decades her junior.
“I don’t mean to date younger,” she insisted, “but they approach me and I end up sleeping with them. Maybe it’s the energy I give off.”
She shared that a 21-year-old saved up all his money so he could take her out to dinner, yet she’s shamed for seeing younger men.
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“It’s so common though for older men to be celebrated for dating younger. We don’t ever talk about how there’s so many women out there, too, that have already hit their sexual peak and men their age aren’t interested,” Hooper said.
“It’s something I see so common with women my age these days – it’s crazy. So we go for younger guys and we’re usually slammed for it.”
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Fortunately, Hooper has found fellow cougars who share her preference for fellas in their roaring twenties.
“[My friends and I] are all open and honest about our sexual experiences, so we pass on the boys once we’re finished and give feedback. These guys love it,” Hooper revealed.
However, the situation isn’t helping her to settle down.
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“Obviously, though, anything serious with them is off the cards,” she admitted. “Younger men are usually broke, so it can be a bit harder to explore anything further.”
“But they really do try so hard – and the sex is incredible. They’re just willing to give anything a go, which I really admire.”
When Hooper does decide to search for a partner, she’s “going to be cutthroat.”
“I don’t want to settle down with someone just for the sake of it. They’ve got to be right for me; and agree with everything I’m doing,” she said.
“For now, I’m having fun with lots of young guys and that’s fine.”